"Don’t try to be something you’re not." - advice from many women in history
It's strange how after trying on a lot of "clothes" in hopes that something would make a perfect fit (if clothes were to stand for the identities you wanna be known for or remembered by), you find you only need to be you.
And someone up there truly loves you for what you were, what you have become, what you are today. That Someone finds you actually pleasing and appealing. That assurance is empowering so no matter what others think of you, say about, do to or against you, you end up putting on a smile like this gurl.